There’s so much more about this smile. You just don’t know. This is the web portal of a fifteen-year-old feline who grew whiskers and paws. As much as she loves dwelling in her solemn, gloomy little own world – she is also thought to be a nonsensical and ill-mannered child who eats anything but food.
Yo. It’s Rachee.
Rachelle Angeli B. Marañon for short. HAHA. I love purple. I accept friends and comments. I laugh, I love, I shop, I cry. I do everything I want; I’m still young, wild and free. I know my boundaries, mistakes and flaws. I spill secrets. I’m bubbly. I’m not aiming for the perfect me but the better me. I do what’s right or maybe wrong, but I still make of it. I laugh at myself if I did something silly. I can control my temper and everything that should be controlled. Everyone knows that life is crazy but wonderful. It can be unfair, but not at all times. I can be your worst enemy or best friend. I am weird, but not that simple. I have realized something that I should have been realizing earlier, still seeking for true friends and for my knight in shining armour. Patiently waiting and I wish they’ll come sooner or later. I don’t believe at love at first sight, nor at times even at true love. Everyone has an individual ability to make a person happy, and I can make you happy, but sometimes I can make you cry. Some people hate me but I don’t mind them because they’re insecure. I take many pictures. I had swollen my pride; my past memories are still treasured. You are welcome in my heart and I swore I won’t forget you. Keep that curve on your face; keep smiling!
I hate it when you tell me that you don’t think you’re beautiful.
“But I’ve gained a lot of weight.” “And there’s a constellation on my face.” “The eye bags make me look old.” “I don’t know how but I think I’ve let myself go.”
Stop for a minute.
Turn to that critical voice in your head and tell it stick its harsh opinions where the sun don’t shine. Because those labels become chains that keep you trapped in the dark. And, deep down, you know better. Deep down, there’s a window in your soul that seeks to believe that you were meant for more. That you were meant for wide open spaces where the light always lingers . Keep that window open for one minute longer.
Because that feeling at the pit of your stomach that you can’t seem to shake off, that killer instinct, that flickering hope — they’re all true.
How different would your life be if you actually believed the voice that you’ve been trying to resist all along? The one that says: “You are a miracle. Proceed accordingly.” Whether you choose to silence it, fear it, run from it or ignore it, you can’t stop me from standing on this metaphorical mountain, screaming the truth from every conceivable peak:
YOU ARE A MASTERPIECE.
Take those eyes, for example. Those eyes that you say are too squinty, too big, too small, too far apart; too black, too dull, too droopy, too weak, too odd.
However they look, they’ve watched a thousand sunrises. They’ve seen couples kiss at weddings. Those eyes have beheld incredible goodness, witnessed the amazing triumphs of the human spirit, caught glimpses of beauty at its most unencumbered. Those eyes have cried every time it felt the jagged edges of the world pierce your heart. Have cried over death and loss and betrayal but also, joy, surprise and gratitude. Those eyes have marveled. Have seen everyday wonders like the sunshine peeking through after days of dark rain clouds. Those eyes have seen colors that no palette could ever physically translate and those eyes will see things in this lifetime that might even put the word ‘miracle’ to shame.
Or your body. The body you constantly lambast for being ugly. Ugly because it doesn’t match the standard the world’s held up against you. Ugly because it curves in the wrong places, is too wide, too narrow, too short, too tall — when are you going to realize that you can’t have it all? You can’t and you don’t need to. Because that body was never meant to fit into someone’s small, simplistic notions. That body was made to tell stories. Was made for movements and revolutions, made with the capacity to say so much without saying anything at all. Your body is your vehicle for adventure, your translator for when love desperately needs to be felt. And however it’s packaged, whatever quirks it comes with, it is fully equipped to do what it was always made to do: to tell the story of you as beautifully as possible. If you let it.
And that face. I love that face because it is the permanent residence of your beautiful smile. Your smile that tells me the world’s going to be okay when everything around has fallen to pieces. Tells me as I stand on the opposite side of the room: Hey, you belong. Tells me we agree, we get each other, we understand, we forgive, we’re okay. Tells me I am loved even when I don’t exactly feel like it.
I love that face because it is the home of a billion expressions, each one contributing to your specific you-ness. The way you scrunch your eye brows or stick out your tongue or cross your eyes when you want to catch my attention. The way you flare your nostrils in disbelief or crease your mouth into flat lines when you’re upset. The way your eyes take on a hollow look when you don’t want to be where you are anymore. That face of yours is my manual for everything that you feel. It’s written in code but I know it so well because I have never studied harder for anything else in my life.
And we could go through your entire anatomy but still arrive at the same conclusion by the end of it. Now is the time to keep those windows wide open, to see yourself in a light that’s never harsh, to use love as a mirror wherever you go.
Because I hate it when you tell me that you don’t think you’re beautiful.
So I will make it my duty to stand on metaphorical mountains and paint the walls with truth. To keep reminding you that you are, you are until we finally start seeing the same person in the same uncanny light.
8/15/2012
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
8/15/2012
Little miss scardy cat
Do you want to know the truth? I’m scared, okay? I’m terrified to get too close to you because I don’t want to get my heart broken. I’m afraid that if we take this further, I’m just going to get hurt and to be honest, I don’t think I could take that.
8/04/2012
Saturday, August 4, 2012
8/04/2012
I'm here for you
Four words and a thousand different interpretations.
Sometimes, when people say “I’m here for you,” they mean “I’m here for a while, for an hour or an evening. You’re a generally good person and I enjoy your company and I know you have to vent right now, so I’ll listen; I’ll even bring the beers if you want. But I probably won’t stay the night.”
Sometimes, when people say “I’m here for you” they mean “I don’t know what else to say to your sad story. You floored me and I have absolutely no advice, nowhere to go from here. All I can do is sit here with you and absorb. Hope that helps.” Other times, “I’m here for you” means “I’m here for you but I’d rather not be, it’s just what you’re supposed to say in these situations so I don’t know. I’m offering, but I hope you don’t actually take me up on it.”
See? Different. Sometimes it means something, sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes the people who say it might as well be commenting on the weather, the brunch they just came home from. The words come out but they don’t resonate, emptied of their meaning, just tiny bare word packages floating across a synapse. And sometimes the people who truly mean it never say the words at all.
But when I say I’m here for you, I mean it. I mean it differently. Genuinely. Let me explain.
There’s a part of friendship that’s more than camaraderie and good feelings, more than having someone to hang out with all the time and bullshit with on lazy Saturday mornings. There’s a part of friendship — real friendship — that’s fierce love. The part marked by understanding, protection, sacrifice. The strong part. The selfless, human part. The part that would move your body in front of theirs to take a bullet without a blink or second thought.
And that’s why I want to tell you I’m here for you — because I am. Not in the therapist sense, not in the let’s-talk-about-our-crap-boyfriends-over-martinis sense, but the real sense: I love you enough to make room for your pain in my heart and handle it like my own. Or better than my own, because my own usually ends up stuffed into a back corner of my brain and left there to ferment into a viscous, sour liquor.
I’m here for you honestly, sometimes painfully so. I may not have firsthand experience with the exact thing you’re going through, but I know what it means to hurt. Hurt translates pretty well. I know what it’s like to feel silenced, shut down, wounded. To feel like there’s no one who really understands, or cares, or will even make the genuine effort; to feel like even talking about it is nothing but a pointless stirring of air. I care about you too much to make you feel that way alone.
I may not give the best advice, or even moderately good advice, but I’m here for you. I may not give you any advice at all — sometimes there just isn’t any, just try what sucks the least and hope for the best — but I’m listening. You can talk to me about anything you want; your fears and apprehensions, the things you’re afraid to acknowledge let alone say out loud. They probably won’t go away but maybe they’ll get smaller and a little easier to deal with, and that’s still something.
I’m here for you when you’re giving up, when you’re exhausted. I’m here for you when you’ve got no more left. When you’re overwhelmed by the bleak truth and vast helplessness of it all, the ache, the emptiness; I’ll hold your hair back when your sadness makes you sick, hold your chattering bones when you sob in my arms like a hysterical child. I’ll listen to your words or your silence, whichever you give me. I’m here for you when there’s nothing left to say.
I’m here for you, put it on my shoulders. I’m here for you when your heart is squeezed dry, dehydrated and dark like shriveled weeds. When you open your mouth to speak and no sound comes out because language can’t articulate the white noise in your head, can’t wrap descriptors around its frequency, I hear you. Pour your tears into me, wet my shirt sleeves and dry your eyes with my hair.
Genuine friendship is a rare thing and that’s why I want to tell you I’m here for you. And when I say I’m here for you, it’s because I need you too — your existence makes me lighter; your presence helps tease out the mess of the world. Is that weird? Are people allowed to feel that way about other people anymore? There are people all over the place, we’re always stuck in this incredible anthill, but when we find the one person we can actually trust and let our guard down with we cleave to them like dust to sweat. And we’re not trained to feel this way. We’re supposed to be so evolved, so independent and self-serving, that sometimes we forget what it’s like — and that it’s okay — to need someone to love us, take care of us, take on our emotional weight.
I’m here for you because I am that person, and because you are that person for me.
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